What Your First Dance Says About You
At Gold Coast Farm House, we’ve seen hundreds of couples take to the dance floor for that all-important first dance – and every single one is magic. Whether it’s sweet and slow, funky and fun, or completely choreographed, that first spin under the stars (or fairy lights) says so much about your style as a couple.
So we thought we’d round up some of the most loved first dance songs we’ve seen at the Farm House – and take a cheeky guess at what each one says about the lovebirds who chose it.
Let the music (and personality decoding) begin…
Our Top 10 First Dance Songs at the FArm
1. “Can’t Help Falling in Love” – Elvis Presley or Kina Grannis version
THE CLASSIC ROMANTICS
You believe in forever, handwritten vows, and long slow dances under the stars. You’re sentimental in the best way, and your guests are probably crying happy tears into their prosecco.
More like this:
“Unchained Melody” – The Righteous Brothers
“La Vie En Rose” – Louis Armstrong or Emily Watts
“The One” – Kodalin
“Lover” – Taylor Swift (acoustic version)
2. “Perfect” – Ed Sheeran
THE GOLDEN RETRIEVER OF COUPLES
Soft, sweet, and adored by absolutely everyone. You love love, you’re best friends first, and your wedding probably included fairy lights, signature cocktails, and a very organised spreadsheet.
More like this:
“How Long Will I Love You” – Ellie Goulding
“Tenerife Sea” – Ed Sheeran
“I Won’t Give Up” – Jason Mraz
“Speechless” – Dan + Shay
3. “You’re the One That I Want” – Grease (Remix or Original)
THE SHOW-STOPPERS
Fun-loving, nostalgic, and not afraid to bring a little drama to the dance floor. You choreographed this number with enthusiasm and zero shame – and your bridal party was very into it.
More like this:
“Crazy Little Thing Called Love” – Queen
“Love on Top” – Beyoncé
“Footloose” – Kenny Loggins
“Shut Up and Dance” – Walk the Moon
4. “Iris” – Goo Goo Dolls (or acoustic version)
THE PASSIONATE POETS
Your ceremony included personal vows, misty eyes, and maybe a string quartet. You feel things deeply, love hard, and your first dance had all the raw, emotional energy of a Nicholas Sparks movie in the best way.
More like this:
“Chasing Cars” – Snow Patrol
“You and Me” – Lifehouse
“Yellow” – Coldplay (Stripped acoustic version)
“The Night We Met” – Lord Huron
5. “Thinking Out Loud” – Ed Sheeran
THE CROWD PLEASERS
Let’s be real – Ed Sheeran owns the wedding playlist, and you embraced it. You’re thoughtful, genuine, and probably had grazing tables to die for. Your guests left saying, “That wedding was so them.”
More like this:
“Heaven” – Bryan Adams or Kane Brown
“Amazed” – Lonestar
“Falling Like the Stars” – James Arthur
“From the Ground Up” – Dan + Shay
6. “The Way You Look Tonight” – Frank Sinatra / Michael Bublé
THE TIMELESS DUO
Chic, classic, and a little bit old-school. You probably had a champagne tower, a black-and-white dress code, and an invitation suite that deserves to be framed.
More like this:
“Fly Me to the Moon” – Frank Sinatra
“L-O-V-E” – Nat King Cole
“At Last” – Etta James
“Can’t Take My Eyes Off You” – Andy Williams
7. “All of Me” – John Legend
THE HEARTFELT LOVERS
You wear your hearts on your sleeves and probably cried together during your ceremony. Your love story is one of strength, support, and deep connection. Your dance was just one more beautiful chapter.
More like this:
“Say You Won’t Let Go” – James Arthur
“You Are the Reason” – Calum Scott
“Stand by Me” – Ben E. King
“Forever Like That” – Ben Rector
8. “Forever After All” – Luke Combs
THE GROUNDED ROMANTICS
You’re low-key but deeply loyal. You probably had your dog at the ceremony, country tunes in the background, and a whole lot of warm hugs and belly laughs.
More like this:
“Made for You” – Jake Owen
“Better Together” – Luke Combs
“Then” – Brad Paisley
“You Make It Easy” – Jason Aldean
9. “At Last” – Etta James
THE SOULMATES
You’ve been waiting for this moment and it shows. Your first dance oozed elegance, gratitude, and a sense of “we made it.” Classic, meaningful, and powerful.
More like this:
“If I Ain’t Got You” – Alicia Keys
“Let’s Stay Together” – Al Green
“Come Away With Me” – Norah Jones
“Songbird” – Eva Cassidy
10. “Your Song” – Elton John or Ellie Goulding version
THE DREAMERS
You’re a little whimsical, a lot romantic, and your first dance was less about perfection and more about presence. You’re not afraid to cry, laugh, and sway your way through life together.
More like this:
“Just the Way You Are” – Bruno Mars
“I’m Yours” – Jason Mraz
“Falling in Love at a Coffee Shop” – Landon Pigg
“Home” – Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros
Bonus: The Ones That Caught Us Off Guard (In the Best Way)
“Africa” – Toto. Full group dance with umbrellas!
“Shut Up and Dance” – Walk the Moon. Surprise transition from a slow waltz
“A Thousand Miles” – Vanessa Carlton
A hilariously sweet pick that started with dramatic piano miming and turned into a couple’s full dance routine.
“Teenage Dream” (Acoustic Cover) – Katy Perry
Romantic and nostalgic, especially when slowed down with an indie-style twist.
“I Wanna Dance With Somebody” – Whitney Houston
Starts as a slow sway, then bursts into a full-on group dance – instant energy boost!
“XO” – Beyoncé
A moody yet romantic surprise choice that feels both cool and emotional.
“God Only Knows” – The Beach Boys
Retro and heartfelt – sentimental with a totally unexpected twist.
“You’re My Best Friend” – Queen
Upbeat, cheeky, and SO them. Always makes guests smile.
“Boom Clap” (Acoustic or Orchestral Cover) – Charli XCX
Unusual but oddly romantic when reimagined.
“Grow Old With You” – Adam Sandler (from The Wedding Singer)
Sweet, funny, and a crowd-pleasing nod to one of the most iconic wedding movies ever.
“Lucky” – Jason Mraz & Colbie Caillat
A breezy, playful vibe for couples who want romance without the drama.
“Simply the Best” – Noah Reid (from Schitt’s Creek)
Understated, emotional, and deeply moving, especially if you’re a fan of the show.
Your First Dance, Your Way
At Gold Coast Farm House, we believe your first dance should feel just right for you – whether that means dipping under fairy lights, slow dancing barefoot on the lawn, or pulling off a full Dirty Dancing lift (yes, we’ve seen it – and yes, it was amazing).
Planning yours? Think about the songs that have been part of your journey – road trips, kitchen slow dances, Spotify playlists – and don’t be afraid to ditch the rulebook. Just like your love story, your first dance should be entirely yours.
No matter your style, your first dance at Gold Coast Farm House will be unforgettable. Our open-air spaces, twinkling lights, and natural beauty set the perfect stage for your moment under the stars. Contact us today to start your dream wedding journey.